Put yourself in their lives

'Put yourself in their lives'

Don't make your own assumption towards others. They have their own lives and reasons for everything that happened to them. Don't blame and give negative feedback just because you saw their attitude, how they lives, and how unworthy they are in your eyes.

People have their own story whether it is good or bad.  They adapt from that environment and changed their mind thinking, attitude towards others to shield their selves from getting hurt or from open up to others.

Put yourself in their lives... know their conditions, their hatred, their perspectives before judge them negatively. What you saw and know about them not the same with what they have to dealt in their lives. For some, maybe what happened to them isn't difficult, but to others, especially to them, they can't run away, can't dealt with it as strong as you think you can be.

Not everyone in this world can have a happy lives, some have worst, some more worst than the others, but some... you can't even imagine what they have to dealt in their lives to stay alive. 

When you think your lives is worst enough, remember that yours not worst enough compare to others.